We know that adolescents get depression.
We also know that adolescents are a lot more likely to get depressed than pre-adolescents.
And, we know that pregnancy is associated with a higher risk for depression both during the pregnancy itself, and at least three months following.
None of us can remember our very first family dinners. I’m thinking of the meals we had in the dark, cozy confines of the womb, where we swallowed the flavors of chicken curry or matzoh ball soup, or whatever our mother had eaten for dinner.
I recall sort of blowing off my concerns that my older daughter wouldn’t welcome her soon-to-be-born sibling. After all, I have a sister, and we get along OK.
Lots of people have siblings. How bad can it be?
One of my mentors helped me to think about this using a simple and telling thought experiment.