May 29, 2014
Concerts: A Survival Guide
Intro music written and performed by Dr. Gene Beresin. Outro music performed by Dr. Gene Beresin. Almost Famous, Cameron Crowe’s wonderful movie about sex, drugs and rock n’ roll, has many lovely and poignant moments. Indeed, the whole film can be seen as a carefully-written love letter, with just the right tincture of melancholic nostalgia, […]
May 20, 2014
The Senior Prom: A Joyous Rite Of Passage Or Nightmare For Parents?
Intro music written and performed by Dr. Gene Beresin. Outro music performed by Dr. Gene Beresin. It’s the weekend before your kid’s senior prom. You and your wife are having a typical evening at home, perhaps watching a movie with your youngest daughter. And, there’s a kind of tense silence you remember all too well. […]
May 9, 2014
One Man’s Brush With Being A Mother
I think we all take our moms for granted in some way, especially us men. Despite how much we love our mothers—how much we have always depended on them—as men, we not only take them for granted, we also have no clue what it’s like to be a mom. This came to me today, oddly […]
April 23, 2014
Myths About the 12-Step Program: What Science Tells Us About Effective Treatment of Addiction
The 12-Step Program. Does it work? In recent years, there have been some questions raised about the effectiveness of 12-step mutual-help programs (such as Alcoholics Anonymous) and 12-step professional treatment plans, claiming that these approaches are almost completely ineffective and even harmful in treating substance use disorders. Tune in for more on what parents should […]
October 28, 2013
Raising Resilient Children
This has been a tough year to be a parent. From deadly school shootings, tornadoes tearing through elementary schools, and bombings by homegrown terrorists, to the steady stream of discouraging news on the cost of higher education and the lack of good jobs awaiting young graduates, it has felt like there are more and more […]
October 23, 2013
Kids at Risk for Violence: Warning Signs of Aggression
Some kids will become violent as adolescents. Many have a very short fuse, exploding over the smallest thing. Others, like a ticking time bomb, harbor pent up anger until something pops. And then there are the scariest kids—the ones who silently plan to harm others, and then don’t just fantasize, but really hurt others, verbally […]
September 23, 2013
Over-Scheduled, Stressed-Out Families
You can also listen to this podcast on iTunes, Spotify, Google Play, Stitcher, TuneIn, SoundCloud, and most podcast apps – just search for “Shrinking It Down.” A contemporary belief is that it’s our job as parents to make our beloved children successful, and to do so we must start focusing on skill development as early as possible—if not by playing Mozart […]
Is It Safe to Use Stimulants to Treat ADHD?
It’s not unusual for parents to bring their kid with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) to a child psychiatrist and say: “We really want you to help, but do not want any medications.” What causes someone to say this? It’s not often we would go to a doctor and say, “Take care of me, doc, […]
Adult Children Moving Back Home: The Boomerang Generation and the New Normal
Intro music written and performed by Dr. Gene Beresin. Outro music performed by Dr. Gene Beresin. In the past when children went off to college or left home, parents needed to adjust to living as “empty nesters.” The expectation was that this was the way life would continue. But in a major economic and social […]
Tips For Parents Sending Kids To College
College is quite a milestone in family life. For parents and college-bound youth, it represents the real beginning of adulthood. Prospects of autonomy, independence and REALLY leaving home come to mind. It’s an incredibly exciting and long-awaited achievement. Though thrilled to get going, most new college students are also more than a tad stressed. Many […]